VCR

During my recent 5-week trip to HK,
I had the chance to meet many people.
And I was pleasantly surprised by 2 fathers.

At an optical shop, the owner told me,
'I arranged books on shelf in a way as you'd suggested.
'My boy picked up books & just read them by himself.'

At a hotel cafe, an executive told me,
'I asked my boy interesting questions as you'd hinted.
'He enjoyed them & now ask me interesting questions.'

I was very happy.
Not because of  the fathers' praise,
But because of their VCR.

First, their Vision.
They understand how important a father's involvement is,
In a child's development, especially when the child is a boy.

Then, because of their Commitment.
Not just talking or thinking about it but Commit themselves.
They're DOING it - making it happen, making a difference.

And, of course, because of them doing it Regularly.
Doing it 1 day, 2 days is not the same as doing it EVERY day.
Have to do it Day in, Day out - that's what it's all about.

Because these fathers are Communicating with their boy,
Constantly Challenging their child etc.,
They're helping their child to develop the essential Life Skills.

So, I'm happy.
Happy to see more Happy Fathers, Happy Children around.
Making this world a Happier Place to hang around.

Fate
VCR Fathers Prepare Children Better
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Think

When walking past a shop in HK,
My Younger Boy started a chat.

YB : Dad, do you know what a casino has?

I : What do you think?

YB : A Big TV.

I : Yes.

YB :Unhealthy drinks.

I : Right.

YB : Someone smoking.

I : Could be.

YB : Playing darts.

I : Playing darts?

YB : Yes, did you not see them playing earlier?

I : Earlier?
Oh, that's a pub not a casino.

Fate
Children Are Quick & Great Thinkers
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Purpose

While planning this HK trip a few months ago,
I had a chat with my Elder Boy.

I : Where do you think we should stay in HK,
Hotel or Serviced Apartment?

EB : Well, depends on Purpose of  the trip.

I : What do you mean...Purpose?

EB : Well, if it's for Leisure, it has to be Hotel;
But it's for Work, then Serviced Apartment.

I : Sounds reasonable.
But can you give more details?

EB : If it's for Leisure, a Hotel's grand lobby,
Big front desk, good buffet meals, room service etc.,
Will make the trip more relaxing.

I : Yeah. Sounds good.

EB : If it's for Work, like me & my brother has to...
Do some work during this summer school holiday,
While us on an overseas trip, I suppose .......
Serviced Apartment serve us better because we can...
Have a proper writing desk, proper lights etc.

I : That's True.

EB : So, are we having a Leisure or Work trip?

I : It can't be Leisure, can it, just Play, Play?
It can't be Work either, can it, just Work, Work?
So, it has to be a Leisure and Work trip.
Work, Play, Work, Play.....

EB : So, where are we staying then?

I : Hm....good question.
For you, Service Apartment.........may not be good.
So, we're to stay at a Hotel -  you're to Work better,
Thinking you're on a Leisure trip!

Fate
Life has a Purpose
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Responsibility

In HK for a Business/Family trip.
As usual, boys know their Responsibilities.
For example, buy breakfast.

Although it's 30 degree in the morning,
Boys have to walk with me to buy breakfast.
And to carry breakfast back to hotel.

Another example,  water bottle.
When going out,
They've to bring & look after their water bottle.

More example?
As it could be 35 degree during the day,
Boys sometimes have to make a decision.

To walk first or walk later.
As I agree to pay for transport for one way only.
Just to remind them it's their Responsibility....

To act Sensibly,
To spend Wisely, 
Or one's to have a very Tough Life Journey.

Fate
Responsible. Reasonable. Remarkable
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General

When I picked him up from school,
Younger Boy started a chat.

YB : Dad, do you know what we did today?

I : Something exciting?

YB : Yes, we'd a quiz .

I : That's good. About Olympics?

YB : No. About General Knowledge.

I : General Knowledge?
Hm..... how general were the questions ?

YB : One question was,
'What's the capital city of Spain?'

I : Did you know the answer?

YB : Yes, of course.
Do you know the answer?

I : Yes, of course. Barcelona.

YB : No. It's Madrid.

I : Oops.......

YB : Another one was,
'How many wives did Henry VIII have?'

I : Did you know the answer?

YB : Of course. Do you?

I : Hm.....well,.......

YB : He had six wives.

I : Wow! I wish I could afford that!
I thought Henry had 8 wives - he's the 8th!

YB : One more?
'What's the name of Harry Potter's pet?'

I : Did you know the answer?

YB : Yeah. Do you?

I : .............

YB : Its name is Hedwig.

I : How come you knew all the answers?

YB : Well, we're given one sheet,
With 35 questions on it. 
But...we could look up the answers in books.

I : So, that's not General Knowledge then.

YB : What do you mean?

I : That's General.....'Cheating' Hahaha!

Fate
Life is about making the Right Choices
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