Sunday, May 25, 2014

More

Is it a fact that there are...
More unhappy people than happy ones?
If so, is it anything to do with...

Most people expecting they Deserve More?
I remind our boys they should expect nothing.
They should put in More Time, More Efforts...

I actually think I've More than I deserve,
Given that I'd Failed so many times.
And it's about time to give back More.

So I recently shared with HK parents,
In a popular HK parents' forum.
In addition to me helping UK parents/children.

I hope I've taken HK parents to another level.
Not just about getting into the Oxbridge,
But more about getting along with their child/ren.

How to avoid being a Pushy/Punish parent.
How to make a team with their child/ren...
By being a Polish Parent.

The following thread starts in Chinese,
But my sharing is in English (I'm 'Fate')
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2802417&extra=page%3D1


Terence
Want More? Give More!
Twitter : @longyinfather
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NaiyU2Zptjg
www.fatesecrets.blogspot.com
E : tlai1388@hotmail.com






Thursday, May 15, 2014

Fair

While having our after school snack,
Younger boy started a chat.

YB : We've a Talent Show coming.

I : Show?

YB : Yes, kind of competition.

I : Competition?

YB : Yes. Only for Yr 7.
One can sing, dance, play instrument etc.

I : Alright.  Did you enter?

YB : Kind of.

I : Kind of?

YB : Yeah.
A classmate has asked me to join him.

I : What are you two to perform?

YB : He's going to play guitar and sing.
I'll play piano in the background.

I : That's good. Team work.
Have you thought about doing it alone?

YB : No, it won't be fair.

I : What do you mean?

YB : I'm doing my grade 8 in piano.
It won't be fair to others as they're at lower grades.


Terence
Be Honest. Be Fair. Be Prepared.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfygwJbjTWw
Twitter : @longyinfather
www.fatesecrets.blogspot.com
E : tlai1388@hotmail.com


Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Compare

When's the last time you compared?
Just minutes ago?
What did you compare?

It's a human nature to compare.
In the old days,
Which cave was better to sleep in?

In the modern days,
Which Walkman looked better?
In the recent days...

Which supermarket offers best value?
Which firm offers cheapest energy price?
Which provider offers lowest mobile tariffs?

So why these academics were so keen to...
Attack OECD to compare internationally,
Academic results of the 15-year-old's?

http://www.theguardian.com/education/2014/may/06/academics-international-school-league-tables-killing-joy-of-learning?CMP=twt_gu

Even though these academics THEMSELVES,
Compare everything, everyday like everyone else.
Do these academics accept what their uni pays them?

Do these academics accept all uni applicants?
Do these academics award all students a 1st class?
No, they don't.

Because they COMPARE...
Their own pay packages with others' internationally,
Their applicants' academic result before shortlisting them.

Their students' work before grading their assignment.
Do these academics think they're the only one can compare?
Because they're the 'Elite' and only they know Education?

Do you think these 'Elite' attacking OECD,
Was because they're doing a 'Pre-emptive strike'?
Because they feel OECD would soon compare unis? (2nd last para.)

Do you think rather than Criticising like us the 'ordinary',
These 'Elite' should be Contributing & set a good example :
Designing a better model for us the 'ordinary' to compare?


Terence
Everything is being Compared Everywhere, Everyday
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZIjxXurqkY
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Sunday, April 27, 2014

Movie

While having our dinner at home,
Elder Boy asked me a question.

EB : What's your favourite movie?

I : Well, it has to be...
'An Autumn's Tale'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EifJXwcR59c
The best movie in my opinion,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGTjZNg4okE

EB : What if my question was :
Which 2 are your favourite movies?

I : The one I just told you and...
'Somewhere in Time'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uicvPZSKIM
So, what's your favourite movie?


Terence
Old Movie, Old Story, Everlasting Memory
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Secrets-Child-Genius-Series-IV-ebook/dp/B00GW1I9DG
Twitter : @longyinfather
www.fatesecrets.blogspot.com
E : tlai1388@hotmail.com


Saturday, April 19, 2014

11+

It's the time of year,
When 11+  is getting near.
Many may start having fear.

It's not life and death,
But only a reality check,
Only help you to plan ahead.

It's just another project,
You and your child get :
Work as a team as simple as that.

My boys' CGS has Open Days,
1st one on 26 April  Saturday.
1st on GSCE results by the way.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-25849548

Would I see you/your child at Seaton Library?
I'll be there to help a child becoming better lately.
http://www.viewfrompublishing.co.uk/news_view/31060/21/2/seaton-it-all-adds-up-to-free-maths-tuition

Longyin will be at Seaton Library too,
http://www.devon.gov.uk/seaton_library
1150-1300 hrs on (Sat) 26 April - us two.

Your child's Future is in your hands.
We try to help in the best way we can.
Answer your questions in the coming weekend.


Terence
11+  is a 'PLUS' in Life 
Twitter : @longyinfather
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Saturday, April 12, 2014

Presentation

They say,
'Presentation is Everything'.
But I say,

'Presentation is only the Beginning.'
Because not only one has to be...
Good at Speaking,

But also has to be...
Good at Delivering.
Kind of like the old saying...

'Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk.'
But it's always better to start with something,
So, let's look at this video,

'The Secrets of a Great Speech.'
With me showing a good example?
Or me showing you what NOT to follow?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZIjxXurqkY


Terence
Great Presentation comes from Great Execution
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www.fatesecrets.blogspot.com
E : tali1388@hotmail.com




Friday, April 4, 2014

Prize (3)

April Fools' Day.
Another Lucky Draw Day.
And the Last Draw at the end of the day.

On 1 April, I drew another 2 lucky readers,
From those buying the E-book for others,
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Secrets-Child-Genius-Series-IV-ebook/dp/B00GW1I9DG

Since I'm still very busy on several fronts,
Includes helping kids to have more Maths fun.
http://www.viewfrompublishing.co.uk/news_view/31060/21/2/seaton-it-all-adds-up-to-free-maths-tuition)

So my personal website,
www.terencelai.com,
Has yet to be completed.

So I've to announce the 2 lucky winners,
Here in this Blog,
And to thank them for their support.

Ms Lewis in Canada, John in Midland.
Thanks for supporting, www.chsw.org.uk
Children Hospice South West.

Your small gift is on its way.
Hope it's to light up your days.
And wish everyone to have more happy days.


Terence
The Ultimate Prize in Life : A Happier Life
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfygwJbjTWw
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